Break the Barrier

She's Likeable with Aparna Shewakramani: Reality TV Star, Author, and Speaker

Joanne Ambily Jose Season 2 Episode 5

What does breaking the barrier mean for Aparna? Redefining success on your own timeline

I’m so excited to be speaking today with Aparna Shewakramani, a South Asian author, speaker, and unapologetic voice for women choosing to live life on her own terms. You may recognize her from Netflix’s Indian Matchmaking, where she quickly became a standout for her honesty, self-assurance, and refusal to settle. Since then, Aparna has sparked global conversations about modern dating, cultural expectations, and redefining what it means to be "too much." As the author of She’s Unlikeable, she dives deeper into her journey—sharing raw, witty, and powerful reflections on love, ambition, and identity. We’re excited to talk about everything from navigating public perception to embracing individuality and power. Let's dive right in. Welcome, Aparna!

In this episode we cover: 

- The role of honesty in representation, navigating public perception, and reclaiming your narrative with grace

- The journey of writing a memoir 

- Her future endeavors in storytelling 

- The impact of social media on perception and leveraging it to amplify your voice 

- The importance of rest and incubation 

 -Navigating fame and its challenges, including dating while in the spotlight 


Thank you so much Aparna for coming on the show and breaking the barrier. She can be reached via Instagram @aparnashewakramani for mentorship